The Rua Rendezvous - Play Munch
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3rd Wednesday of each month.
7pm - 10.30pm £10 per person - CASH ONLY
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​Held at Club DV8, Matts Hill Lane, Hartlip, Kent
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Dates for 2026
18th Feb, 18th March, 15th April, 20th May, 17th June, 15th July, 19th Aug, 16th Sept, 21st Oct, 18th Nov, 16th Dec
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Dress Code: Whatever you like. This is a relaxed event where you can dress up or down as much as you like.
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The venue does not have an alcohol licence so please feel free to bring your own alcoholic drinks. There is a bar selling soft drinks and tea/coffee (Please DO NOT bring your own non alcoholic drinks). NOTE, the soft drinks bar only accepts cash.
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So what will we be doing at our new play munch?
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There will be areas to just sit and socialise.
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We might even set up an area for those new to the scene to meet people.
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We’ll bring along some cake and sweets but any other snacks should be purchased from the bar.
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We’ll be setting up various stations such as wax, rope and needles to allow peer learning.
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We’ll have experienced people along to lead peer learning sessions.
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We're hoping to have a speaker of the month each time.
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The downstairs dungeons will be open for those who would like to play.
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You get the chance to learn various types of play in a teaching environment rather than a club/spectator environment.
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Gradually we’ll morph the munch into what YOU want it to be.
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In line with other play munches around the area we will be charging £10 a head entry. This is due to us having to pay to hire the venue, but it’s not all bad, because its probably much the same as you would spend at the bar in a pub munch, the parking is free, you can bring your own alcohol AND you get to play if you want to. There’s also the fact that the venue is private and you won't have to navigate herds of non kinky people.
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The only downside is that it's not easily accessible via public transport. To those who want to grab an Uber from the nearest train station, the address to type in is ’DV8, Hartlip, Sittingbourne, UK’ which is the same as the one you need to type into google maps if you are driving.
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As for why we are not opening the upstairs area of the venue. Most people that use the upstairs area on a club night tend to use it for intimate play. That’s not what the munch is about. It would also mean that we would have to charge more for entry as the venue hire would be more expensive due to increased cleaning costs. We feel that to have 2 dungeons and the whole of the downstairs area is enough for a play munch…and we hope you agree.
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We have done our best not to clash dates with any other local munches. It’s important to us that all local munches can exist in harmony and that we can all visit the ones we like without having to choose between two that run on the same night. So, for that reason, we have chosen the 3rd Wednesday of each month.
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If you have experience in an area of play and would like to lead a peer learning session or you would like to give a talk about an area of your expertise, email us at thehouseofrua@gmail.com
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NOTE: The venue does not have a postcode. Please do not believe Google maps as it will take you to a private address.
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What 3 Words locations:
Front Gates:
///foggy.pixies.reversed
Car Park:
///zipped.jabs.reserving
Entry Path:
///rezoning.solar.scale
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​If you prefer to use Google Maps, the co-ordinates of the front gates are: 51.33761938486586, 0.6131187269699598